Guide to Stepparent Adoptions in Oregon
- Ryan M. Pech, PC
- Aug 6, 2024
- 4 min read
Updated: Mar 25
Welcome to your guide to stepparent adoptions in Oregon. Whether you're considering adopting your stepchild or simply seeking information on the process, you've come to the right place.

What is Stepparent Adoption?
Stepparent adoption is a legal process where a stepparent becomes the legal parent of their spouse's child. This formalizes the parental relationship, granting the stepparent full legal rights and responsibilities for the child. It's a way to provide stability, security, and permanency within blended families.
Common FAQs About Stepparent Adoption:
Is stepparent adoption possible in Oregon?
Yes, stepparent adoption is permitted in Oregon, subject to certain legal requirements and procedures. It allows a stepparent to legally adopt their spouse's child, providing them with the same rights and responsibilities as a biological parent.
Do stepchildren need to consent to adoption?
In Oregon, stepchildren aged 14 or older must give written consent to the adoption. This ensures that older children have a say in the decision and are involved in the process that will affect their legal relationship with their parents.
What does it take for my child to be considered “abandoned” so the biological parent no longer needs to consent to the adoption?
In Oregon, stepparent adoptions are typically only possible when the biological parent gives their consent. However, consent may not be necessary in certain circumstances such as mental incapacitation, imprisonment, or abandonment. If a parent has willfully deserted the child or neglected to provide proper care and maintenance for one year before the adoption petition is filed, their consent to the adoption may not be required. This means that if a parent has been absent or failed to support the child for a year, the court may allow the adoption to proceed without their consent. The court will consider factors like regular communication, financial support, and attempts to stay involved in the child's life. If it's clear that the parent has abandoned the child or neglected their responsibilities, the court may decide that their consent is not needed for the adoption to move forward. This decision is made to ensure the best interests of the child are protected throughout the adoption process.
What does the post-placement evaluation entail?
A post-placement evaluation may be ordered by the court to assess the suitability of the adoptive home. While it's often waived in stepparent adoption cases, it may involve interviews, home visits, and background checks to ensure the child's safety and well-being.
How does an independent adoption differ from one done by the state?
Independent adoptions are conducted without the involvement of the Department of Human Services (DHS). They are typically facilitated by an adoption attorney and may result in shorter wait times compared to adoptions done through the state.
What steps lead to the finalization of a stepchild adoption in Oregon?
In Oregon, the adoption process generally involves filing a petition with the court, determining whether parental consent is required or can be waived due to circumstances such as abandonment, incarceration, or mental incapacity, working with DHS to ensure the child’s safety, attending court hearings if the adoption is contested, observing any required waiting periods (unless waived), and finalizing the adoption through a court order.
Stepparent Adoption Process in Oregon: Step-by-Step Guide:
Determine Consent Requirements: Assess whether consent is required from the biological parents and the child (if age 14 or older). In some cases—such as abandonment, long-term incarceration, or mental incapacity—consent may be waived by the court.
File a Petition with the Court: Submit a formal adoption petition in the county where the child resides to initiate the legal adoption process.
Conduct Evaluations / Go through the DHS Process: DHS and/or the court may require evaluations such as a home study to assess the suitability of the adoptive home, depending on the specific circumstances of the case.
Attend Court Hearings: Participate in scheduled court hearings, where testimony and supporting evidence may be presented to the judge, especially in contested cases.
Observe Waiting Period (if applicable): Oregon law generally requires a 90-day waiting period before finalization, though this may be waived under certain conditions.
Finalize the Adoption: Once all legal requirements are satisfied, the court will issue a final judgment of adoption, legally establishing the adoptive parent-child relationship.
Requirements and Considerations for Stepparent Adoption:
● Consent of the Non-Custodial Parent: In most cases, consent from the non-custodial biological parent is required for the adoption to proceed. Exceptions may apply in cases of abandonment or other legal grounds for termination of parental rights.
● Legal Filings and Background Checks: Stepparent adoption involves various legal filings, background checks, and working with DHS to ensure compliance with state laws and regulations.
● Home Study Requirements: While not always required, a home study may be necessary to assess the suitability of the adoptive home and ensure the child's well-being.
Benefits of Stepparent Adoption:
● Legal Rights and Protections: Stepparent adoption grants full legal parental rights to the adoptive parent, ensuring the ability to make important decisions about the child's upbringing.
● Security and Permanency: Stepparent adoption provides stability and permanency for the child, strengthening family bonds and ensuring a sense of belonging.
● Inheritance Rights and Benefits: Adopted children may be entitled to inheritance rights and certain benefits, providing financial security for their future.
The Importance of Stepparent Adoption:
Stepparent adoption is more than just a legal process; it's a commitment to providing stability and security for your family's future. By formalizing the parent-child relationship, stepparent adoption ensures that important decisions regarding the child's upbringing are made with legal authority and provides reassurance in times of transition or crisis.
Stepparent adoption in Oregon is a life-changing decision that can positively impact the lives of everyone involved. By understanding the process, requirements, and benefits, you can make informed decisions and navigate the adoption journey with confidence. If you're considering stepparent adoption, don't hesitate to reach out for expert guidance and support. We're here to help you every step of the way as you embark on this meaningful journey to expand your family and secure your future.